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Would You Marry A Selfish Guy?

i ve a boyfriend that we have been dating for 6 years, but that six years is like hell to me, because he does'n trust me, and he is always complaining about what i do, he does not like it when i make up and he complain of whta i wear.

He is so selfish that even when i told him that i want to further my education, he is complaining, he prefer to do the thing that will favour him and hurt me, but still claim that he love me and he want to marry me. he even said whether i like it or not he is going to marry me. although i did not see him with any other girl, he said he is going crazy because of me.

Now i don't know what to do because he complain too much and i can stand him any longer, and the worst part is that he always said that if we get married, he did not think our married will last.

please help me out. what do i do.

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This one nah true talk ooo my dear sisto.it's beta u leave the GOD forsaken boi alone n move on with ur life.

Shuld incase u are the ugly type ,i beg u in the name lof GOD stick ur Bottom to the guy ooo cos another guy

may not come ur way.

No talk say i no tell u ooo.safe dear,

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Which kain question be this one na? 6years sha? Na wa o

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Aint they all selfish??

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@lucabrasi

I am not saying he is sponsoring my school, I only said he does not want me to go to school. And even if he have the money to sponsor me, I will never allow him because he is too proud for my likeness.

@ all

Thanks so much, I am really grateful. And to the people who insult me thanks and May God forgive u.

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oh yeah, lest i forget you certainly brought your burden to the right alter. you certainly gonna get the right solution. *how ironic*

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Amen onyinye

Brillant reply

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Omo listen to me and listen to me good. This man is what i call a low timer. He fits all the qualities. He doesn't want to feel inferior so he will keep you down. He is insecure so he constantly questions your trust. He is controlling because he only feels like a man when he is in total control.

Gurlie you need to leave. . . . ASAP. He is never going to change. This is just the beginning of what is in store for you. If he his treating you like this now, oga, what do you think he will treat you like when you are marriage.

Let me put it in perspective. A real man vs. a low timer. You see a real man treats his woman like CHINA(not the country). He treats it with care, make sure it is oka. Make sure it is out of harms way. so on and so forth

A low timer treats his woman like a paper plate. He eats out of it. Sees it as something cheap. Rough handles it. And eventually when he is done using it, he will dispose of it.

So omo, you see what im saying. You need a guy who treats you right. You sees you as a precious jewel. What you got is a low timer, and you can do much better than that, unless you see your self as a paper plate not CHINA.

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@poster,

it happens, its just unfortunate that your a victim of this sort of circumstance, i would advice that you look outwards a little bit before you make the

decision of marriage. you prince might still be out there.

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As long as the guy is making enuf money from the selling of fishes, he will be married.

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6 years of cooking

6 years of washing

6 years of joblessness

6 years of jamb(i guess u r still NFA)

6 years ofwaste

You are such a ninny.!!!!

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@poster

since when has being in a relationship equate to financial responsibility?its a priviledge and not a right for anyone even your boyfriend to sponsor your education when he is not your dad or mum or immediate family,you talked about him not trusting you bla bla,have you given him cause not to in the past or has some issue come up in the past bordering on infidelity,personality i wont sponsor anybody's education or any financial commitment whatsoever,how is the dude sure that after spending hundreds of thousands to sponsor your education you wont get up and dump him??

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you need to change your name from bi-gold to be-bold. that should inspire you.

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this relationship is six yrs old right? I think that is a good time to know if u want to marry him or not.

And if till now, you r still not comfortable, then zoooooooooooooom away quickly before u plung into a lifetime of grief.

And i hope u r not scared of him.

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@hollandis

what do u mean, u have no right to insult me, all i need is ur advise and if u cannot, just shut ur dirty mouth because i didnt come hear for ur insult.

May God forgive u

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bigold repeat this after me "I, bigold,female,illiterate is a fool and a mumu"

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