Can you marry a lady or a guy who already has a kid?
You're single, never married. You've almost given up on falling in love. Out of the blues, you meet this great dude/babe. Everything checks out. He/she has everything u've ever wanted in a partner. There is great mutual affection (or it appears to be).
One day your partner told you that there is something you have to know. He/she has a kid. He/she loves the kid so much. If you want him/her, you have to also want the kid. You want this person. You're concerned about the kid. What will you do?