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Would You Marry/date A Jobless Graduate?

you have been in a dating relationship for more than 4 years, yet the guy even though he is a graduate has been unable to get a job. alongside it, he does his masters and does some teaching runs alongside. would you as a lady still go ahead and marry the guy?

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all this girls saying it is not about the money, na lie, see dem , when reality stares them in the face, dem go know wassup

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Would You Marry/date A Jobless Graduate?----Nope. Male or female, if you haven't got a source of income, then you haven't prepared yourself for marriage. Marriage it self can be a game of chance, so it's best to make an effort before going into it.

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its not about marrying him, how did you want to fund the wedding? first help him to get on his feet, get a job for him or encourage him to start something little, try to create a different impact on him aside from marriage, that way, you cannot be forgotten

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Good, as long as u bring such quality into the marriage then u got every right to demand ur dream man.

Now i'm cool with ur previous post.

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@kerosine, i hope say u no go sell kero for d rest of ur life if u try that. ask people who have suffered with a man in d time past and let them tell you their rewards. the first thing you will hear from the miserable man is "I CANT MARRY YOU WITH PITY" just bcoz u assisted me when i was jobless? by that time u will know say age no be number but it makes women's body wrinkles faster than men

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@sextacy and justwise, one of u asked me what am bringing into the marriage and one also said he's sure i will want him to be tall, handsome and bla bla bla. i will only answer u two bcoz it seems u fit into the described persons shoe. i will be graduating next year, after which i will go for my master  and PhD degree concurrently. and guess what guys, i pay my sch fees from day one till tomorrow. i wouldn't enter a marriage if i do not have a job either.i am a young girl but hardworking and independent. i will definitely place thesame expectation on the man qualified to be my husband. so  justwise, yes i want a tall and handsome man because am 5.9ft tall and beautiful and above all,i deserve one. u don't want me walking on the street with a man looking like a briefcase

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@ pakossa, i think u are truly jobless plus u are not always serious.

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1. The notion of decent is absolutely relative.

2. There are many women who have married irresponsible as well as jobless men. It will NOT start or end with you. Now there may be a repercussion to pay but there is still this notion of "[b]at least I have a man[/b]"  going on. Believe it or not babe!

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You mean jobless. . .no work or at least business to call his own? Don't think So!

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do you have a job? what do u do

if he is ready to marry you or date you even as u are jobless, why is his own a problem?

this same girl will still come out and say he cant love a guy because of mony.

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What will u bring into that marriage if he has to have a job and alternative source of income, so as to keep u diamond shining?

PPl can be very funny as if she will contribute something wen she marries the Guy?

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I like ur comment crazyman. Am passin thru similar issue with d guy am datin almost 1yr, he graduated 3yrs ago 4rm UNIPORT of which we're stil hopin 4somtin good of which am very sure of.

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I couldnt agree more.

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I totally agree with u, they don't want to suffer with the man, only want the made one, who wants a woman who is of no use in a marriage.

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hmm, a man with a good job and an alternative source of income, i know u would also want him to be ''tall, handsome,athletic, God fearing and bla bla bla, nonsense!, dont worry, keep creating you own man in your own world of fantacy. if i may ask, HOW WELL HAVE YOU PACKAGED YOURSELF SINCE YOU DESIRE A PACKAGED MAN??

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What will u bring into that marriage if he has to have a job and alternative source of income, so as to keep u diamond shining?

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To be a man isn't a day's job; that he can't secure a job today doesn't mean he won't secure a job in the near future.

Its safe and advisable to go on with the relationship, all you have to do as a responsible and loving girl is to be there for him always; assure him continually of the undying love you have for him and support him in prayers.

And I can assure you that when he eventually secures a job, he would remember you as the woman who stood by him during his dark days. He would love you with all his heart and nothing would come between both of you.

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I can date him but i cant marry him. ladies lets be realistic, would you like to suffer when you are suppose to be happily married? and when you now see ur friend enjoying, you will start forcing on ur hubby in d house? HELL NO. am not going on that road with no man. if u wanna marry me. u need to have a job and an alternative source of income just incase u loose ur job. coz mubowa is a diamond and need to be treated as such.

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if i really cared about him or her and felt that my significant other wasnt lazy or a dollard i think i would go on with it and see how i could contribute to making things work for us. they have to be naturally industrious people though.

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he has potential. If you truly love him then make it work.

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that' s a man so therefore i'l go ahead and marry him.

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yea i would

at least dey finished skool

am sure a job oppurtinty would cme around

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I would give him credit for being ambitious and educated, but from what you said he isn't jobless, he is doing his Master's degree, and other teaching jobs so that pretty much takes up most of his time, but im sure he will get a Job when the times comes, if i was in ur situation i would try to be supportive, atleast he has a future and knows what he is doing.

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If he's doing his Masters and at the same time, some teaching runs, then he's really not jobless.

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