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Would You Really Want To Know?

I knw we've heard a lot abt cheating,& abt hw its d worst possibl betrayal in a r/ship,yadda yadda yadda,etc.my question is,if ur partner cheated,wld u rily wnt 2 knw abt it? As 4 me,i'd rather nt knw,because if i did,its ova,& evn if i miraculously decide 2 4giv & giv u anoda chanc,dere'd b no trust,& u cnt hav a r/shp witout trust.so,bottomline is,if u cheatd on me,i'd rather nt knw abt it,so u'd beta kp it 2 urself,or at least tel me 20 yrs afta d event.wat do u tink?

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What is this law book and why does it make rules for women alone?

Even though I can already imagine what crappy book that is!

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I know myself well enough to say that my life wouldn't be made worse if I didn't know, but also with self-knowledge, I know that I would probably guess the signs (distance, avoidance . . .) and I would figure it out eventually, and the paranoia would make me confront him.

However, if he is remorseful, if he has stopped cheating, and was able to put 100% back into our relationship, and I didn't know a thing, I wouldn't want to. Who says that I can't live a happy life without knowing.

There are so many people around us living lies and what makes us able to cope is the fact that we don't know.

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When you cheat, will you tell him?

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i'd rather not know about it, it so painful. howver, only to those who do not cheat back.

there are some women u cheat their husband too. realising that of their husband, doesnt meant anyting to them but rather encourage them to do more on their act.

Going by the Law Book, women were not suppose to do that

So that is why it will be so painful realisng that my man is choking another woman.

as for me, even with my serious boyfriend is also painful. i woulld rather not know about it, bury it with u!

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Really? Well good for you. You care about quality? So do a lot of people. I refuse to believe that i'm the only one who writes like that on nairaland. But,if it means that much to you,i'l see what i can do,kay?

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So what? I manage to write full words with my cell phone, why can't you? I care about quality!

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Because michelin89,i'm using a cellphone. There's no need to use swearwords.

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@ poster

Can I know why you can't bleeping write well?

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I would not want to know.

I have told my husband if you ever cheat on me take it to your grave. Never ever tell me because you will need to have packed your bags and moved out at that moment.

Cheating is worse than anything my husband could do to me. Just turn around and walk away if you feel the need to tell me. Please allow me to pick up the pieces of my heart but with my ego in tack.

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what you don't know won't kill ya!

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i second ur decision.

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i wouldn't wanna know about it cuz if i do, we r over, even though i forgive him, there is no way we r getting back together cuz i wouldn't be able to look at his face anymore, if i do the more i'll hate him n i want God to answer my prayers.

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I s'ppose it depends on d kind of persn u r.if u're d kind of persn,who,like me cnt tolerate it(dere is no justification 4 it & i wldnt bother listening 2 his excuses)mayb he'd keep it 4rm me.but i'd beta nt find out 4rm any1 else.

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Yes. And he better be the one to tell

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@ topic

The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. Think twice!

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