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Would You Still Go Ahead To Date This Person?

I met a guy online and ever since we have been chatting and talking on d fone he has been asking to see me, so i arranged for a time to see. while we used to chat, he told me he was single, no girl friend, nothing and never been in a relationship, only 4 me 2 find out from a source that knows him "what a small world indeed" that he did have a girlfriend. i confronted him and he said yes he has, so y would he want to know me and most especially lie 2 me?

what will you do if it was u?

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i smell rubbie in making

i guess shes talkin abt me

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what about the pain you cause us? Is it because we've learnt to take it on the chin?

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Nothing wrong with online dating oo but when they start 'pestering' you, run as fast as you can. buncha psychos!!!

Some of them will even get your email address from God-knows-where and seek for a so-called 'friendship'.

@poster, he wanted a fling; that is to have his cake and eat it too so long as you didn't know he had a girlfriend.

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But for the other girl, because he WILL do it again.

And the innocent GF wouldn't even know what the has been doing behind her back. Prolly planning her future with him.

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10ks o, pls men should take it eazy with all d aches and pains they cause 4 d female species. haba

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yes o though it hurts as i started developing feelings 4 him. it's really time i guard my heart, no more hurt.

thank u all that replied this, i have deleted him from my list, site and anywhere. he's by gone.

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its a known fact that most men who have their profiles on dating sites are either married or in a relationship.

online dating is good only if you take it as what it is. you are talking to a screen, and whoever is on the receiving end can tell you whatever you need to hear in order to get you in bed/meet you or whatever.

be smart about online dating and there are a few things that you need to know:

- if possible, have a web chat before the meeting day

- never give any of your informations online until you actually meet him for real

- always meet the prospective friend/lover/bf in a crowded public place the first time you will meet (not a nightclub, party).

- get to know the person physically, in real life and check that all what he claim online is real (it takes time so dont rush into anything)

- do not expect more than just friendship online, if there is to be more than that then let it happen face to face.

- if you meet a guy online that looks to good to be true then it probably is and something is definitely fishy.

- a good looking, intelligent physically able man would not need online dating to find a date unless he was only after some side toto in his busy life

- there are lot of 419 scam via online dating/facebook/msn/yahoo so you have to be extra careful at all times.

- it is very easy to find out who a person really is and information about them from their email, full name etc. be a detective before throwing your life at someone.

- only a desperate/thriffling person will claim to love you etc before you even met and therefore you would have to be extra careful with them.

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Yeah,internet runs can be dangerous!

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You should be careful wanting to meet up with someone you don't know anyways.

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My dear, your case is unfortunate but be glad that you found out on time. The lesson you should accept from this is simple, chatting with guys online is not a crime, but do so as friends. If someone you haven't met, and simply shared conversations with, no matter how intimate suddenly starts directing the relationship towards dating rather than friendship, then you should be wary. Not every guy you chat with is a potential boyfriend, open your mind but guard your heart, It's not for everyone.

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i didn't quite get or understand the statement u made in bold and not at all am i expecting everyother person 2 b single. just y did he have to lie? dats all

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Did u like what u saw in him? because u just got out of relationship does not mean everyother person should b single. if u dont go ahead, where do u think u are goin to find a single guy?

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thank you. yes he is nigerian. is this a common trend with nigerian guys, just curious

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i didnt necessarily believe, its just that, when we initially started speaking online, i wasnt interested but he kept pestering me for so so long, dats what i dont get. and y.

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is this english?? hisses. what do u mean by girls believing in liars and how would a girl know a guy is a liar immediately?

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because u girls believe in liers/

if an honest guy tell u the truth he will end up been a losser

so u girls desearve liers.

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