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If you were close to your best friends wife and he was cheating on her, would you tell her?

Best friend from childhood, he's like a brother. And his wife is amazing and really doesn't deserve it.

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It's none of my business. I will advise the friend to stop. The sad part is as much as I don't want to be involved in anyway (I don't condone cheating), I will still cover up for him if need be. I will hate doing it but I will. Just cos my allegiance is to the friend.

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Better she dont hear it from u. Remember she was ur friends wife 1st b4 she became ur "friend". Shut d 4k up and let things sort out themselves. She will find out 1 way or another but not from u.

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my broda

no try that thing,

if katakata bust, dey will sort dem self-out

but you will be d one they will hang

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@poster, it depends on who u r, if u r someone dat cheats on ur wife, den probably u'll find no reason y u shd let her know about it. But every ryt tinkin individual knows he needs to talk to his friend about it first, b4 doing any oda tin.

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It depends on da type of person u r, if u r someone dat cheats on ur wife too, den probably u'll see no reason y u'll want to tell her or him. But every ryt tinkin person will talk to his frnd about it first, b4 doing anyoda tin.

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Oh yes! Tell her. She has the right to know. Life is too short for lies. Informed decisions need to be made. Bare the honesty of the situation. Truth is truth and let the cards fall as they will. Everyone will benefit in the end.

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the wife has every right to know. PERIOD.  tell you friend he either has to stop his actions and tell his wife or you will.  give him a time limit.  3 days, a week but no more then 2 weeks!  make sure he tells her, not claims to.  if he doesnt tell then you need to.  no friendship is worth putting another persons life in danger.  how would you feel if you kept your mouth shut and she ended up with hep c? herpes? cervical cancer (yes caused by an std- HPV)? HIV/AIDS? 

dont worry about saving his marriage, he destroyed it the moment he thought about having relations with another woman.  dont worry about a friend, a true friend stops you from being s.tupid - he doesnt enable you to be disrespectful or slow

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hehe. Don't worry. I have exquisite taste. That's why I have a crush on my own mother. Come on, mum . .  5000 years ago it wasn't called Inbreeding.

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If you must tell do it anonymously.

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I'll help him hide it, and even hook him up with more chiks sef. I'll expect nothing less in return from him.

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If it were me I would want to know.

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I would tell him after i've told her to do so and if she doesn't.

My best friend from childhood probably deserves my loyalty.

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