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Y Is It hard To Find a decent girl In Nigeria When U Return There From Abroad?

Guys, please I would like to hear your views on this matter, why is it hard to find a decent girl  to date in Nigeria when  and if you come from abroad, is either they are pretending or they over hype themselves to blend, well what do you think

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every strong-minded Nigerian in Europe want go to Nigeria to look for wife, except those that document denied the opportunity, or the lazy ones who always want to get every thing through shot-cut. still a lot of risk in those descent girls in Nigeria cose they might be pretenders, so my advise is to go to your village and marry somebody you knew before travelling not necessarily you friend. it will save you from future regrets. i did it and many of my friends did it. it is joyous, good luck.

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Because you are nt decent as well.

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fellow Nira landers especially the babes them, my sincere apologies, let me clear the reasons why its kind of hard to get a so called wifey abroad, for starters, we are all hustlers besides, few people travel from Nigeria to ie UK and America with right to stay, now Una know say the blind cant lead the blind, and beside that, I never said there where no decent girl abroad oh,I said Nigeria,

well Decent girl in Nigeria means, she telling the truth she is not in any type of relationship, her phone don't ring like 20 times midnight, not getting strange calls and going outside to chat,have something doing ie Job or Biz to go to and not relying on Men to sort every need, that one hard eh?you guys would not understand unless you are in same position, this issue is not just limited to myself, even girls from abroad have same qualms, ask them, and may I ask, why are people so rigid, when it comes to thread that needs loads of thinking self, I beg if Una no get rational way of thinking ignore this thread instead of arguing, talk your own abeg or better still start a new thread.

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s'om'epe to man je k'eyan ya were

to jepe ibi kibi tan ba wa idi wan o ni le joko

ehen epe naun lan ti she fun wan

awon ode oshi

kan ma la oju wan kan sit up

kan si ma wa nkan to'nbe ni sokoto ni sokoto

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Ni gbati wan ti sepe fun yin tan.

Wasn't it just a while ago that another psychopath created a thread about going back home to find a "decent" girl, since there ain't no  decent ones abroad?

Maybe you guys should really sit down and think about what's worrying you.

Maybe it's not the girl, maybe it's the cultural mentality that y'all refuse to let go.

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define the word decent in ur own words

state the areas u have conducted ur search

have u considered getting down from that high horse?

or setting ur standards a lil closer to earth?

does the fact that u have travelled out for whatever reason make u all of a sudden a membet of a very very rare specie of humans? (if u even think ur human)

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@erico2k2,

Ol boy, I feel you. Dis thing no easy at all!

It depends on the type of girl you want. I suggest you get at least two point men in Naija (close buddies that respect you) to scout for some candidates. You can also go online to get some potential candidates too (don't mind the ignorant views of those archaic people that don't understand the power of the internet). Before you land Naija, narrow the list down and focus on at most three babes from the list. Sometimes the problem is too many choices, and this is almost the same as no choice. Get rid of one and focus on two. If you can stay for at least 4 weeks in Naija, that will really help.

Also, try to define the term "decent girl" as best as you can. This will help you quickly narrow your choices as you meet more babes. You will meet more, not less, as you keep searching and you need clear parameters to weed off the ones that don't make the cut.

My sincere apologies to all my fine Naija babes way fit to dey think say I dey craze. Sorry abeg, I just wan tell the guy wetin I think.

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Its not about decent. There are loads of decent hard working girls around

But two things must come to play. Either you don't meet their standards as Husband Material or they Don't meet urs as a Wife Material

Lets not generalise some of these things. In Nigeria are abound all sorts of characters

No when you come in and pose as a Janded guy and need activity,

The easy one will flood around you and enjoy with

It will become a problem when u use these ladies of easy virture as a yard stick to measure others

Decent ladies are abound. I know a whole lot. But cool down and look for one that matches your desires in a woman.

KA CHINEKE MEZIE OKWU!!!

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Thou Art Nuts!

One more look @ my profile & U'll go 'nutty'.

This is in response to your next post.

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Would I lie to U?! Visit the Psychia!

Abi u don't want the 'decent' girl again? Contribute to what? Ur pointless thread. U should praise me 4 my 'baseless' posts which are aiding the growth of your thread.

Kpele oh! Eyín ton subbing. . .

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@ eriko2k2

Too bad! Just tooooo bad! U'ld av chewed my nuts if u held 'em. U claimed to be a 'decent' dude in search of a 'decent' girl.

But ur beans got burnt over a lil 'Decency Test'. . . Guess what! U failed! Ur score? -2 outta 1 mill.

Nice way to catch f**kin & lying pretenders like u.

Ur last post reeks so much of your acclaimed 'Decency'. Don't even try to justify ur 'rubbished' decency cos it'll only make u look much more silly.

Yeah, yeah! I'll build sand castles for u & ur decent gal from the psychiatric hospital.

U claimed to be decent, not me. . . By the way, I live by myself in my world & it rocks up here. Unlike ur decent world which is in need of 'decent gals'.

Akoshi bero, Were Ólója!

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Did U keep any (decent girl) when leaving?

What did u expect? That we should keep them awaiting your arrival abi?

Afta devouring the ones over there, u want to come and. . .

U can't eat ur cake & av it. . .

A Word Of Advice:

Visit the psychiatric hospital, there' lots of 'em there.

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@ OP it is not that there are no decent boys or girls to date when u land naija,there are plenty to chose from (speaking from my experience) but you have to stay in one place for atleast 3weeks before pple we start seeing u around the block and b4 u know it you have gotten more friends in those 3weeks than u would have in a whole 7yrs in europe.

Just be yourself next time u are in naija ,don't over hype it that u just jand most pple hate it bicos they will think u think u re better off than them,just mellow down.

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Did U keep any (decent girl) when leaving?

What did u expect? That we should keep them awaiting your arrival abi?

Afta devouring the ones over there, u want to come and. . .

U can't eat ur cake & av it. . .

A Word Of Advice:

Visit the psychiatric hospital, there' lots of 'em there.

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@eriko2k2

u know any nija babes in london u fit link me. As my ppl don't approve of d fine babe where i wan go marry 4 nija b4.

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You search for them at the wrong places

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None of the above. Your face scares them away.

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