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You Found Out Ur Lover Cheated On U. What Next?

i once cheated on my boy friend. throughout that time, he didnt find out

4 months later, he knew about it

i didnt deny, he was mad but i apologized.

we ar still together and nothing has changed

but i dont feel comfortable about it, he might hav some plan against me

or try and purnish me later

wat do u think?

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I won't do anything I'll go on with .

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You are lucky to be with a guy like that , for me oooo i'll Bleep your sister , your best friends and then i'll dump your Bottom ,

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@poster,

you are lucky,the guy loves you so much,i guess your conscience is pricking you,i guess thats the best way to deal with a cheat,so why did you cheat on him?

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May be he is using psychological intimidation on you

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@poster

move on, waste of time

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Lying beside her and holding a grudge is what would make the pain INTENSE!!!

It's the best way to punish a cheating tart.

She shoulda thunk of that before cheating in the 1st place. . . .

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relax your mind but you have already given him a better conscience to do whatever he like to whenever without thinking of what may come out of it.infact can you tell us why you did that in the first place and about him having plan b depend on the kind of person the guy his.game or no game if he wants to play on you,you don't have to wrong him before he takes the step.

but if it happens to be NO LONG THING.i will let the girl to understand that i want the best for her to if she know what is good for her then let her follow the lead.if i loose her then we are not meant to be,so she can jebele.

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i think i kinda get what you are saying. you have that feeling in the back of your head that the guy might be planning something against, but i highly doubt it. personally i dont know how you could have stayed in the relationship. i would have been over whelmed with guilt. i would have just gone and start a new relationship where i would have learned my lesson and be faithful. just a thought.

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ladies can't o,,,,,,,esp. when d guy is not doin dem ryt

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but cant u ladies do without cheating on your guys?is it all ladies that cheat?tink d answer is yes.lady bam, its a lady's world.but if u r dating a guy like me, u cheat on me and i nab u,just leave d country

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i think once you cheat on your partner n he/she forgives you, you are bound to do it again, its human nature. i know i will never cheat on my husband, but he knows it will be over between us if he does cheat. i'll forgive you but there is no where on earth i will take you back n suffer the pain and memories of you cheating. i don't want to have to worry, what he is doing when he says he is going to work, or out with his friend. so its a no no for me.

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Funny enough, in all those threads where a girl comes to ask for advice about what to do to her cheating boyfriend, everything female will advice her to, and i quote, "Dump him like he's hot", "he aint worth u", "He aint man enough", "aint gat time to waste on wasters"!!!

Good to see some fresh air for once, you are very lucky to have that guy as your man. . .  and trust me, men dont have time to plan revenge, if he accepted u back and nothing changed, then nothing is likely to change in future - u r just feeling paranoid about the whole thing because u would've dumped him if it was the other way round - and u know it - and thats why u cant understand him letting sleeping dogs lie.

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I think you are evil.

From what you have said, this is a very loving and forgivng guy.

You are only putting yourself in his situation - i think you would have looked for a way to get back at him if he was the one who cheated on you.

My advice: Learn from him!

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aint nothing you can do but deal with whatever he throws your way.  You should have denied it till your death.

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stop making generalizations, its not all ladies that cheat, i know i have never cheated on my husband, wats the point of cheating, if you don't want to be in the relationship then end it instead of cheating.

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He cheatz on me!!! D end, 'll muv on innit

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just incase he decides to pull a fast one

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here we go again with ladies cheating,if i were ya boi friend ill offload you right away

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