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Your "love" Beats U Up? Reason Enuff To Leave Or What?

You've been dating this guy for over a year. He seems to love you and he's totally devoted to you, seemingly. You have a slight misunderstanding, nothing serious at all and he gives you the beating of your life then apologizes after wards and even behaves klike you made him do it. Tell me folks, isn't this reason enough to end the relationship??

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Which kind question be this? you can wait until you are dead, so your family go come carry you comot for dia then.

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i wonder oooo my sister

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@ all

why should the man form macho on his wife??

make he go outside na,dem go finish am

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Anyway Thanks for the complement.

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Calabar? the hell did you get Calabar from?

Anyway Im pretty much saying "bless you" for your comment

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It's too extreme for a man to adopt a violent attitude toward his so called partner whether married, dating or even sex mate.

I have a hot temper is not a reason of having a physical combat with a woman.

No matterhow she runs her mouth she's a woman and tolerance is what makes you a gentleman.

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That explains everything.

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lets use your mom as practice

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Really? When is there ever a right time?

Because she refuses to be a punchbag??

A typical brute's way of thinking.

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Concentrated English once again from Negro LOL

I not saying we femals dont know how to push "the buttons" but this girl was given the beating of her life. After the first blow or two didnt this bastard think OMG what am I doing? No he is a monster so he kept beating!

This beating sounds like it was beyond a mistake

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T, on the surface its incomprehensible why, without provocation, a man would whack his woman or the woman would daze her man. However, there are undercurrent tensions in every relationship. Application of Logic and reasoning or the absense of it in a relationship is in effect determined by a dynamics beyond the conscious effort of the parties.Sometimes, as in the case of the subject in the post, the aggression has a hold on her. It becomes symbolic- the innate feminine power that arouses the animal instinct in a man and enslaves him forever into her spell. There is actually a myth associated with the behavior. The taming of the bull.

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Re: Your "love" Beats You Up? Reason Enuff To Leave Or What?

Gosh! What more do you want, before you decide to leave?

Would you rather hang in there, till he busts your jaw, leg, arm?

Or worse, kills you?

Get out of that relationship! If that's love, Heaven forbid if he hated you!

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Iru love iya wo ni yen? I don't even think she loves the guy. She used to him and wonders if she will meet someone or where does she start from when/if she leaves him.

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Well why is she slapping him? and Im talking about the girls who do it while the poor guy is calm and trying to reason. You might not like what he says but must you slap him because you know you know he cant or wont hit you back.

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I think if a woman slaps a guy she should get slapped back.

Cant people just scream at each other in fights?

Go punch a wall scream into a pillow cry smash some plates! Anything but put your hands on the other.

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I think its enough reason for you to dump his Bottom,why would you want to stick to a guy that already beating ou just after a year of dating him,my dea a year is not a lot,the earlier you leave and pick up your life agian the better it is for you.Don't stick to a guy that beats you up all in the name of love.

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To even ask this question shows that the guy didnt give the girl a good enough beating.  If he had really beaten the living daylights out of her she would of had some sense knocked into her.  She would see that this so called boyfriend is a crazed beast.

For Gods sake please leave him!  That goes for guys as well who have these quick to slap girlfriends!!!

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It is more than enough reason to end the relationship because he will continue to beat over and over again at any given chance. After the beating, he'll start to beg saying i didn't know what came over me but i promise it won't happen again. All this is story cos it will surely happen again.

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sarin, i beg to differ! so the capital punishment for lady who misbehaves should be the beating of her life? yes ladies can pull alot of crap but then real matured men know how to put them down and bring them back to their senses, worst case they walk out to let of their steam. i personally see a man who hits on a woman as handicapped mentally & emotionally.

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@topic

if he beats me then im not only going to leave him,but im also going on permanent exile(i mean outta his life for good better best)

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PLS stay there ooooo abi you no understand say na Boxer you dey with. if you want to be a punching bag by all means stay.

i even heard some people like it. it amazes me, if my man beats me, i go feed am with enough Cyanide to kill an Elephant

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It does without saying ,,,,,, dealbreaker!!!

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it is one of the best reason to end any relationship, cuz once he has done n u forgive him, he sees it as an oppprtunity to do it again, so leave now, no matter how much he begs

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Stay there and deceive yourself this dude loves you, until he finally kills you, then you will get the message that it is time for you to beat it.

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He beats u once,he'll never stop.

Leave him in a hurry.

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For a guy to beat you means he doesn’t love you; so only a fool would remain in that relationship and claim she’s loved.

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