Q I'm a 16-year-old Christian who recently gave up
my virginity. I waited until I really loved my
boyfriend, and I knew he loved me. I don't think sex
has anything to do with the fact that you're married
or single. I think it's a choice each person has to
make by asking themselves if they're prepared for
the outcome if something goes wrong. I talked to
my partner about the possible outcomes. We used
protection and nothing bad happened.
My boyfriend broke up with me recently. I know it
wasn't because of sex, it was just because we had
grown apart in our relationship. We're still best
friends and we talk all of the time. I still don't regret
anything I've done because I know I loved my
boyfriend, and I always will. So why do people
judge me when they find out that I'm not a virgin?