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I have been praying for the death of James Bassey and he is not dead yet, can anyone help ?!?!

Pastors?

Witches?

Anyone?

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Your stupidity has no limits,just as your username.

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i imagine ure overseas/

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have you tried the police?

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That is bulls. If your parents said that then i am sorry for you, is your dad saying that if your mum (his wife)was Molested he will rather divorce her than report the case?.

Maybe your parents lives in a backward village in 1900, but in todays world a girls sexual history has little to do with her marriageability. I have seen prostitutes that use to stand on Sanusi Fafunwa marry rich wealthy men. Also many young single mothers find suitable husbands.  So because a girl was Molested means society should ostracize her?.

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@ wirinet, my folks have told me that if I want to be married, I should not talk about my molest, report it, or discuss it with anyone, and things will just go away.

If my folks won't support me, then who do I have on my side, No one!

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If truly you were Molested, then this forum is not the best place to report such. Also the guys pastor is the worse person you should go to. ( do u know how much he is worth in tithes and offerings?).

I also do not advocate for praying or wishing him dead. Those work only in fairy tales or in the imagination of religionists. I do not believe in the turn the other cheek bull shiet, i believe in Justice. Someone cannot molest my daughter and asked to turn the other cheek, what should i do give him my wife?.

I think you should have gone first straight to the police, then a lawyer ( or a relative who can help), then a medical doctor to ascertain that you were truly Molested and also ensured you have not contracted HIV from him, as his report will be crucial in court.

If you do not have money or cannot afford a lawyer, go seek help from the many female rights organizations available. The is also the legal aid provided by lagos state government.

But Make sure he does not get away with it.

If you have not done all these, then you will have no case

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No one deserves to be Molested, not even a woman who walks around Unclad (remember we would probably all still be Unclad if Adam and Eve had not sinned).

I am sorry that you were Molested.

I hope and really pray that the scar would heal faster.

But please understand that two wrongs do not make a right, considering that our time on earth is but a brief period.

It is difficult to forgive, but please do try to forgive and hand everything over to the Creator. My hope and prayer is that you would still find a man that would love and cherish you irrespective of the scar left by the molest experience.

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I am Agnostic. I believe in the existence of a GOD. But I am not religious and probably will never be.

I reported the molest to his brother a pastor at the RCCG and he basically insinuated that "I deserved to be Molested and that I needed deliverance"

I will never belong to any denomination. molest is a crime.

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Thank you! Its just soo hard. molest is a crime. I want to see him punished and suffer.

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Proverbs 26:27

If a man digs a pit, he will fall into it; if a man rolls a stone, it will roll back on him.

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