Many people believe in destiny, they believe that things that should happened con not be avoided. So, they just dont make any big steps in their lifes, because they think it still would not change anything. I believe in destiny, but still i think thay we can change in our life everuthing we want. For me, its like an algoritm - if you do in one way, then appear some few different opportunities - choices, by choosing one of them, this algoritm continues. Everuthing depends on you and your wish to change something.