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Why Do Muslim Guys Prefer To Date Christians Girls?

It's a common phenomenon that most muslim guys prefer to date xtian gals these days. As a result most brothers have lost their fate. Most say that they can't find suitable muslim sista to date. I believe because of the hip culture that xtianity embraced, I slam is looking old-school to them.

Brothers in the house what can we do to change this situation as the future of islam lies in the coherence of her family.

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@ Musaka the Muslim sisters are not better. In spit of the mode of dressing for the Muslim sisters, they are as promiscuous as any other person. In the north, the only thing worst than apostasy is for a non-muslim to date a muslin girl.

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It is part of Islamic evangelism.

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Allah kiyaye! 4 m 2 date a xtian guy! Olorun maje!

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Not sure if i was on this thread.

But anyway, @ topic

I dont think they "prefer" to date christian girls per se.

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islam means peace, the muslim men are allowed to marry any girl once they belief in any religious.the christian girls are not decent in their dress most are time. the date them as friend which later be domp since the are easy to carry go.

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Even if you eye is blind, dont you use to watch Jesus 'film'? Dont you see how those women dress covering every part of their body? Even Jesus mother do dress decently in those movies. So how those people dress in those days is now old schoool? While christians of today like to be western except those Deeper Life ladies and few other group

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imagine,how on earth can a mother threaten her daughter that she will throw her daughter into the well,what are they preaching to her in church sef?

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@Jazzifed

Here is a thread started by ifyalways, she also had genuine questions about Islam. http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-359506.0.html

P.s. The thread is a bit long, but take your time to read it. The best part of it is its mostly a dialogue between two people. (some attempts to derail the thread ve been made, ignore that). Insha Allah may Allah guide you to the right path. Ameen.

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I'm researching islam. I was alreading doing that before I meet him. It's a 50/50 right now, on wether i will convert. And he told me that he is pretty sure his family will like me. Now as for my family. Another story. I'm not torn on that because of the simple fact, my life my choice. I prayed for the one, and he came along. So is he the one? maybe. Only time will tell. And my family might be annoyed, but my family is the kind that doesn't care. Family is family, no matter what.But if I convert, there is no way on earth I'm telling my fam (atleast anytime near then,esp if I do marry him). That would be a great way to hurt my family's fellings. My family is very involved in church and the military. Taking things one step at a time is the only way to ensure peace and unity.

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You see the poor girl is in dilemma. That is why is good to be very careful when taking decision. May Allah guide us to the right path. Ameen.

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I think your opinion is a good one. Many families are torn apart because of religion.

A girl at my sister's arabic school used to be seen at a church and when asked why she said her mum was christian and would take her to church whenever her dad was away. My sister then told her to tell her dad about it. Her reply was that she'd told her dad severally and the dad told the mum he was going to divorce her if she ever did that again. But, she was seen in the church cos her mother threatened to throw her into a well if she ever told her dad about it again.

The girl was torn between being thrown into a well and her parents' divorce and she wanted neither.

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As you stated that you are for marriage, I will advice your boyfriend to go for muslim lady to marry not to complicate his life except that you will convert to islam. If you still want to continue as a christian you should also go for christian guy.

Its allowed in Islam for a guy to marry christian lady, but that time muslim ladies were not many enough. Well the rule still stand, but you should remember that your family probably may not like you marry a muslim man. Likewise the family of your boyfriend may not like him marry a christian. So there will be friction. So in order to avoid unnecessary pressure in your life, go for somebody of your religion that your parents will accept. Well this is my opinion.

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I think u'r right about what 'many' christian men want

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just like d rubbish dat got out of ur mouth or that ur hand just typed!

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I've never read a more disgusting piece of rubbish in the last few months.

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I'm a christian woman dating a Muslim man because he actually follows his believes more than a "christian man" does. I'm a preacher's grandaughter. I'm not into having sex outside of marriage what so ever. In fact that's why I haven't go out with that many men. I'm looking for a husband not a freaken one night stand, which is what most "christian men" want. My man is very sweet, and he is content with the fact that I'm not into having sex outside of marriage and the fact that I'm looking for a husband not just a silly boyfriend. He is the best I could find and he is just right.

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I'm a Christian girl and have been dating a Muslim guy for about 8 months now. My parents aren't too pleased about us dating, but I am a strong follower in my faith & like his company. I am patient with him, care & let him see how Christianity really is about.

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Didn't you get the memo that said people have no control over who they fall for? besides, religion has nothing to do with it.

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@jeorj: Can you point to the "error" that you find in Quran? And the fact that the arab girls or anyone anywhere in world have sex before marriage, is that the reason to condemn their religion, or the reason to condemn them as not following the tenets of the religion? this is a good assignment for you.

Further I have argued that Fusat Arabic which is what Quran is revealed in is the most superior of all Arabic dialects or languages, and before Quran, the Fusat did not exist. I do hope you know your arab history so that you can shed some light on this particular issue for the benefit of the non arabs, christians, others and the muslims.

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cos christians are more beautifull dan muslims

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Well me been an Arab Christian, I know Islam and Christianity very well, I am not religious by choice, because in my opinion if a religious book has even one error in it, it's proven to be written by man. You are nor a real Christian or a Muslim if you have sex before you are married. It is condemned in both religions and is not allowed. However, people that would say xtian girls are "wayward" are remarkably uneducated. There are a number of reasons why modernised countries are very different as opposed to the middle east who have a heavy Muslim population.

Modernines countries are secular, meaning that there is freedom to do as you will, sex, drugs and alcohol is permitted by law. Television influences certain behaviors in real life, if you see Unclothedness and sex all the time on television, regardless of your religious views, it will influence you to do those things, even if we don't realise, it's on a sub-conscious level. However Muslim countries are run by religious law, and these actions are crimes and are punishable by a number of means.

I am living in Australia at the moment, and many Muslim girls have sex before they are married, and does happen everywhere even in the middle east. So there is no difference between the two religions. Just peoples personal choices in a modernised countries where there is freedom of choice. The Muslim guys are looking down on xtian thinking they are easy for sex, when they are just as bad, including there woman. So really, it's highly advised to anyone who agree's to these silly remarks, need to get a clue, and educate themselves, and actually do research on your own religion before you say it's right or wrong.

Peace out!

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You really amaze me with all this nonsense you conjure up. Fusat Arabic.

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The issue is trying to be factual. I quite appreciate davidlan and others with the same view(s). The great religion seems to contradict itself or may be the great ones decided to practice what them feel. Think of it, how is it possible for some to believe that winning the non-great ones is by marrying their females while some are of the opinion that killing is the resort. I still wish the great religion would realize they've not been preaching love (THE AGAPE LOVE).

Not until the great ones are all sensitized, the religion will continue to be seem as though a conflicting one.

I have friends from the great religion and will never criticize them. Possibly because they are exposed, educated, and of course willing to "think out of box"

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did you see I was just answering a question.

Mind yourself O

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@Nwando

Why do you like going in circles?

Has Brother Olabowale not provided answer in one of the threads?

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Wonders shall never cease to happen among the Nigerians. Indeed human being as a whole. However

Nigerian take the cake. Imagine a fellow who knows nothing about Islam, even though the heart that

is under the bosom of this fellow is hardened, even more than a nail, will want to tell us that indeed they

a great scholarship on Sharia? The true and complete laws in the Qur'an? The same entity that can not

differentiate between One God and a 3 headed God?

Wow. Nigeria, we hail thee. (Listen, I know that the new Anthem is different, but am from the old School!)

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So you now know there are christians who choose to lead their lives contrary to the Bible , then you are not coherent in your argument and so you do not worth wasting time on for displaying lack of understanding and unwillingness to accept the truth regarding religion, Wait more answers for you.

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I am not nigerian but lived in 4 continents. the simple answer is mutual, the christian girls see a brand of innocense in the muslim guy, mainly because muslim come from a sober lifestyle, and the muslim guy likes the christian girl because she comes usually from a more worldly society and can show him the world and speak the language of the world. other christian girls will find most muslim guys either naive, silly or just uncomfortable with the religion. other muslim guys dont in the first place date, and will find most christian girls too promiscous.

A christian girl knows from her own brothers and ex boyfriends a certain brash nature to sin lie or cheat and she may see a controlable man, trustable man in a muslim becuase usually he isalready tamed by his religion, hes less likely to cheat or look at other women and more likely to want marriage and father a child.

in many societies where christians and muslims live together you will see christian women turning to muslim men because christian guys are not ready to buckle down to one women,, especially if eductaed and have ok income. they want to play way in to the late thirties fourties.

im not trying to bias im just stating my observation including personal experience, (I am muslim)

I met christian girls where we had extreme chemistry but I didnot want to give it achance because I know I want marriage and kids and it wont work unless she converts and she alienates from here family,

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@Kokojunkie: As I recalled, the removal of Plank thing, is in the Bible. Jesus son of Mary was

addressing, Christians, not Muslims. At least, he was addressing the Children of Israel, but

definately not african and not Arabs.

Your slogan speaks volume: It truly applied to and probably still applies to the White Christian

minorities, who are imposing their wills on poor majority of the colonised societies. It also applies

the Jewish nation of Israel, in the mist of Arabs of the middle east.

The Muslims are fast learners, now that they copy your leadership, in this exact same process. I hope

that you do not exclude the Christian and Jewish nations from this your Slogan?

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yet you have been offering the same for your own belief all this while,  LMAO!!!! LOLOLOLOL

I can not believe someone like you after all your posts on this one thread would come back with that line. REMOVE THE PLANK IN YOUR EYE PLEASE And JUST CONTINUE inSTead of shooting yourself in the Mouth with statements you have no understanding of. LOLOLOLOL!!!

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Have you watched that video yet?

men who are following the 5 pillars of Islam have now added a sixth pillar of sexual molestation of infants and it is legal by the sharia.

What say ye?

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You amaze me

So you compare people who choose to lead their lives contrary to the Bible with those who are obeying sharia laws,Allahs own "heavenly laws" that must be followed?

Oh so you mean to tell me this sharia that allows sexual perversion is ok since there are gay bishops?

Do you realise that a gay bishop is an adult that has chosen to live contrary to the Bible nevertheless he is a grown adult that must account of his life and can choose the way he lives,right or wrong.

Thanks for telling us that those Islamic mallams with talisman (juju) and fornication and adultery are unheard of in Islam.

Those girls in the middle east going for hymen reconstruction surgeries and those who only practice BehindBased  and MouthAction to preserve their hymen before marriage are only fragments of our imagination.

I know what I'm talking about.

You must hide your head in shame that you have no answer why allahs law of sharia allows grown men to finger little girls

In case you don't know there is no perversion inour world lower than child molestation.

Gay Bishops are adults just like those gay alhajis in Kano and Saudi Arabia

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What we are telling you and others with narrow mind is that you need to understand human laxities/defects/idiosyncracies and do not attach any human behaviour to a religion ethics.

You will not mention pastors who are diabolic in deeds, you will not talk about gay bishops, you will not talk about sisters/mothers having secret sexual affairs in unexpected places with unexpected peoples.

So you all need to be rounded in religious affairs before blowing your ignorance and bias.

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This is a most empty religion. What does it mean to have "truth in God consciousness"? So if i keep reciting "God is one God" and snatch my neighbours wife i will still make jaanat?

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Worldly success, will not guarantee anyone Paradise. Neither will lack of

tremendous success in this world, make anyone reside in Hellfire. The only

ingredient of altimate success or failure is Truth in God consciousness, under

the Mercy of Al Rahman.

Look at Bill Gate. He is one of the most successful man on earth, yet he does

not believe that there is a God. So ge does not believe in what does not exist

in his eye.

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@Nwando

You and this your bad mouth hand. You just site there and type whatever you feel like. Respect is reciprocal and you will now be saying that you have been the most peaceful. The guy hasnt abused you but read your post towards him.

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You see there is much difference between individual idiosyncracies and religious ethics.

People will teach/advise one thing and do opposite.

All these reflect in the lives of people of all religion - who devote their time in outlook to their creator, but GOD cannot be fooled as all with be rewarded accordingly and adequately to their faith/belief levels.

So be mindful of what you say

Yorubas have a saying "Bo ti se wa ni liki l'owa ni gbanja"

Find out the meaning yourself

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I do not know which of the three gods most posters on this topic serve faithfully, but one thing is crystal clear - There is only one GOD

Most posts on this topic shows how miopic, little level of understanding and biased people are. You can not promote your selfish religion successfully this way.

Islam is more in intellect, deeds and understanding of sociology and human relationship than the level of intellect and understanding of posters on this topic.

I advise all that before saying anything about an issue have an indepth understanding on it otherwise you make a fool of yourself as it is reflecting here now.

GO READ MORE ABOUT ISLAM and READ MORE ABOUT ISLAM and READ MORE ABOUT ISLAM and GIVE YOUR LIFE TO Allah.

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Now my friend, post something positive about Islam.

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@Nwando; I have seen the video before. The woman is courageous.

The men being Arabs and claiming to be Muslims will not translate to

being so.

Yesterday, I was just told that in some part of Nigeria, some people, who

making their Jumu'ah prayer will rush to become Mascurades! What people

say and what they truly do, if it is different from the foundamental essence

of Islam, they are at best weak and need help. But in worst case, hypocritical.

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olabowole ,I'm waiting for your response to that video

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no problem sir

Wa alaikum Salam

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@mdsocks: Salaamualaykum. And Jazakallahu Khair.

Don't pay attention to the likes of Skyone. He has no manners.

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@skyone

I have said times without number,that you speak like a kid. You are on a Public forum and you telling him he is behaving like a mad man. I don't know where you kept your morals. If you wanna argue with someone ,is that the way to go about it. If you are confused then just keep mute.

I have known you for the clown you have been, If your posts is on a discussion then i would reply, but this arrant nonsense is not worthy of gloryfying by replying it.

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Olabowale

I could understand why you are angry; reason be that, when a demon living inside someone is about to live, they strike and prompt the victim to act like a madman.

So dont worry i understand your predicaments and i'm sure every other christian on nairaland does.

I believe you are near receiving your freedom from captivity (Devlish Religion). God bless you.

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I tire for these christian apologists

Seeing, they see not, hearing, they hear not.

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cough cough sneeze zneeze.

oyb your post should have read

we all know no Christians support rapists that's why we punish them according to law.

In the Islamic world,it has to become international news for there to be an outcry.

Do you remember the poor womans punishment was doubled according to allahs sharia laws and the lawyer sacked because they spoke out.

so much about Allah and his mercies.

when the same Allah allows grown men to finger little infants according to sharia what else do we expect?

You've seen the video of the liberal Islamic woman crying out in an interview about the atrocities of sharia on little infant girls.

let me post it again.

@ all Please take time and watch this eyeopening clip and know that Islam and and it's laws are truly sick

Perverts of the highest degree.

please share it with everyone you know.

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@Cgift: I will not yawn. However, if I do, I will cover my mouth, using palm

of my right hand, or the back of my left hand. Unfortunately, at your young

age, you need glasses, or you forgot to read my statement, or you did not

put any thinking cap on before you responded to me.

If you did read and or put the cap on, it is because it did not fit or there is

some serious thing going in your mind, that could have clouded your thinking,

for you to respond to me like you did. I said, 'and others,' in my entry after I

I wrote Christians. Madonna is in the 'other.' Duuuh!

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