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Help: What Does The Law Say About Adultery In The U.k?

Cld pple help out with what my cuzin can do?, His wife whom he met here in the uk is cheating on him with a niaja based guy but cannot deem it fit to confront her cos he doesn't really know how the law operates in the uk, how he can deal with both of them and most of all trying to protect the children btw the two of them,

Its the most shocking thing he had to deal with cos he had been a devoted hubby and most of all a God fearing christian, he thot his spouse was the same but found out some months back and it finally sanked in this month when he confirmed his fears, She is doing it with an ex b/friend, who is now a big boy from niaja on visits primarily to shag his wife and to make matters worse, this bastard is married back home in naija,

Abeg siena, good pips, lawyers et al in the house, opinions needed very urgently, so as to move in on them fast b4 he leaves the u.k

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Hi Tegese,

Please email me at zoebabywells@hotmail.com

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tell ur cuz to investgate properly, if he confirm that they actually dating, he should file in for divorce.

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sin, it is not a crime to have sex with whomever she pleases regardless of her marital status except:

(1) The sex~patner is a minor

(2) The sex is done in public or in inappropriate places   

(3) It is done under threat (or by force)

(4) It is done by taking advantage of a partner who is mentally unconscious

(5) It is done with the intention to deliberately pass HIV or other diseases to her partner

(6) It is done with a partner who by law is under constraint (such as a confined prisoner).

So, in my opinion, your Cousin's best bet is to:

(A) Either forgive her and move on

(B) Reconcile with her without forgiveness for the sake of the kids

(C) Divorce her peacefully and marry another wife if he wishes: Remember, as a Christian, adultery is the only ground that gives you God's permission to divorce and marry another spouse.

   Please, he should remember that this is a very difficult and sensitive matter, therefore, our advice and suggestions here might not be as efficient as His own wisdom. So, whatever your cousin decides to do, let him do it wisely, not taking the matter physical otherwise, the accuser might become the accused.

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Another 'SUPER STORY like' story

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proving it to a judge is the only thing your cuz should worry about. other people are UNIMPORTANT.

your cuz should worry about his children and nothing else. makeçing sure that they are safe and sound and that all will be good in the future if he and his cheating bride divorce.

do you really think the police have time to waste to catch cheating spouse?! they have way better things to do on their hands(get donoughts etc?

this is a family matter.

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He knows, but kindly take the details into account, how does he prove it to pple? cos he overheard them discussing on phone dat they wld deny it he ever gets to suspect, (remember this guy is akso married, he can base his excuse on dat) hence he wants to catch them with the help of police or who?

Kindly make the terrms clearer on what he has to do, pple can be very evil, she is one

he had to pretend to stay with me cos he is afraid of what he might do

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She seems very perfect with her actions cos if he conronts her, she is sure to deny or probably say , the guy is married, evidence is not documented or is there an agency dat can catch cheaters here in the u.k or do we get the police involved?, Catching them redhanded can only be the best form of confrontation in this case.

My cuz cld not get himself to believe it himself, hw much more pple dat think she is a virtious christian woman, some pple can be very evil and certainly cld be found in the most decent places.

He was actually hinted by someone and he followed it up to confirm his fears, apparently the guy's wife in naija has been undergoing seriuos abuse becos of this woman's actions,

Cheers as u leave ur advice and opinions

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there is only ONE thing to do, and thats to leave her and hope for the best.

this woman doesnt love him anymore and she has found someone to replace him. tell your cuz to sit her down, talk to her and accept that she should go on with her life.

let them divorce and move on with their separate lives.

no need for someone to be with a partner who doesnt care about them.

the children shouldnt be the reason to stay with someone, better have 2 HAPPY separated parents than 2 unhappy living together ones.

if your cuz has concrete proof of her adulterous ways(not he say/she say), he will have some leverage if push come to shove on divorce proceedings time.

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