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Why Do Most Female Secretaries Sleep With Their Bosses?

I use the word most because the rate this happen all over the world especially Nigeria is rather too high

Could it be any of the following reasons,

Stay late together at work? See each other every minute of the day?

See her rolling Bottom every time a document is drop at his desk?

What could the cause be?

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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmn, interesting!!!!!!!!

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Maybe because these bosses employ girls they know they can sleep with!

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@Etin, they think its their right. And while i am not saying all d girls are inocent, most of them are victims of circumstance.

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Could it be that the male bosses feel its their right to sleep with their secretaries or is it that they only take on women they could sleep with? I wonder?

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SEXUAL HARRASMENT

Some of them do not wear pant to work.

Na so them go dey flash the kongo for dem Oga face.

The poor man go just lose control.

My People, this thing dey happen everyday.

Some years ago, there was this girl doing her NYSC in my former office. In less than 10 months, she slept with more than 5 guys (starting from the manager) within the same office.

They promised to retain her after service but never kept their promise.

I pity the girl sha.

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@U1,

Agro never gbulem, obu maka because God is in-charge of my life and ndum kwa.

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Fear and lack of Self Esteem!

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We have many well educated women, i think we need to give our women respect and start taking them for there competent and not their gender.

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It's better for you to preserve your dried fish in the rats hole than allow your husband keep a flashy secretary. Majority of men always eat the bone hung around their neck even if they are aware that it may be poisoned.

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Must be hell of a borin life. I don't envy them. lol

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@ Topic

Secretary= "Assistant". Now it's their choice what to assist you with.It could be the normal correspondence and clerical work or pleasure(SEX).Simple!!!

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The good, the bad, and ugly memories thats what this topic brought back! I pray God to forgive me!

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On the part of the secretaries:

One aspect to consider is that women are ussualy attracted to power. In an office setting the boss is the "alpha-male" (in terms of power). So the secretary could easily get attracted. The issue of job security is also an issue. Some secretaries might think that sleeping with their bosses make them less prone to sack and it will likely generate some extra income.

on the part of the randy boss:

Men like to conquer. A boss did not become a boss by suppressing this instinct. However some are so bent on conquering that they begging to map their female employees into the territories to be conquered (where they should be thinking of bussiness conquest). I've heard some men justify themselves by saying "Why won't I sleep with my female employees when I pay their salaries. They are part of my investments and I am simply reaping the dividends".

Whatever the reasons, the trend is wrong and should realy be discouraged. In some developed countries, if a boss sleeps with a subordinate (even consentualy), he/she could still get sued for sexual harrasment (because it is reasoned that the subordinate is naturaly under presure to please their bosses and could not easily refuse).

I think if the adequate legislation was put in place, it might help to drasticaly reduce the occurence.

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it stems from a feeling of insecurity

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for comfort, simple![i][/i]

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i shall soon be needing a secretary. i am wondering if she will not join the list of secs that have slept with their bosses. maybe, maybe not.

but if na fine loose girl, i no fit trust myself o.

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Now that is a question

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@ FAKETAN: I've never worked in that position. However, I've noticed the trend too and just tried to sum it up.

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I can not really say the percentage of secretaries that sleep with their bosses. I also do not believe its most secretaries. why? you may ask, I have worked as a secretary in three different organisations. All my bosses were married men, so I don't see any reason why I should be attracted to a married man.

Also in some organisations, its not only the secretary who sleeps with her boss. It may be another staff that is busy perching on her boss. Even collegues in the office is not left out, they (collegues) sleep with each other and they call it ENJOYMENT.

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@PLC,

U should be bold enough to say your boss was Obasanjo. na so he shag REMI OYO inside presidential plane. He did same to former Deputy Gov of EKiti state Mrs Olujinmi. These may sound untrue. some of us were close to aso rock.

ALL@

It's not just about secretaries and bosses. It happens among colleagues. Also some Hot IT students are in this business. I know cos I had been there.

Btw, what of female bosses that sleep with male subs?

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In keeping with the topic of the thread, we used to have a secretary in my office and my oh my everyone knew she was sleeping with her boss, we all felt she was being used becuase the man had such a bad reputation for skirts and their contents, but later we started getting feelers she was sleeping with her immediate past boss. The catch of it all is that she is married with kids!!! And her hubby treats her like a queen.

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@ rilwan01,

do we need to take sides with the randy bosses who have no self control? true some ladies are way off the mark when it comes to dressing, but that is no excuse for randy bosses whose D**Ks do their thinking for them to be what they are , Plain Randy

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this is because mos secretaries dress rather Unclad to expose their bosom to ther lonely boss

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Honestly, the story looks unserious but the poster has a logical point

It will actually speak to people either way round

But it mostly happen, it is few Ladies and Men with strict policy that narrowly escape it

Let us set sentiment aside.

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PLC,

i blve ur story ooo but the question they asked is secretaris not outsiders.

the pple u mentioned now are not secretaires now, abi

IN REALITY. MOST SECEs sleep and have nice times with thier ogas for many reasons, i will tell u some very sooon,

are u ready

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I think it is just a cliche.

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Hmmmmmmmmmm, too much familiarity breeds romance!

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I don't know why some guys are querying this thread, There was a clean out of my office septic tank some months back and according to the Admin report there were almost an equality in the quantity of faeces as there was condoms. Pray, what do condoms have to do with offices? Go figure.

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eezzy,

you have equally said it all

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Sleeping around in offices does not happen only between secretries

and bosses, it is across the board. The only reason why the boss secretary

affair is so glaring is probably because of the fact that the 2 are always together

and rumours and assumptions around them are easy to develop. Otherwise I know

that many secretaries are self respecting women who dont indulge in such relations.

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The question should be rephrased, Why do most bosses sleep with their secretaries? sounds more reasonable that way

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I beg to defer please

Im a secretary by profession and I never slept with any of my bosses

and many secretaries have not and would never do that

so erase that most and change it to some or few

The reason why most ladies wont do it is because we know

that once d boss is tired of sleeping with you,

you wd be sacked so that another beautiful, gullible lady like you could be employed

Though to be frank, there might be intimacy due to constant working together

u may start having feelings for each other you are being human anyway especially if you are both single

but you sh draw a line and not go beyond your boundaries

But if your boss is married pls you dont have any business having feelings for another woman's husband

even if you do just keep it to yourself and never show it

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my fellow people it i true ooooooooooo.even where i work,the girls are just opening there legs wide, ,especially to the expartrates.even the female cleaners their are champions,

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PLC, has told us his story, but some people are here dragging whether the story could be true or not. All I know is that what PLC narrated is real. Some bosses and big men can sleep with women in any place. Going to Hotel does not add or remove anything from them. Why not again dispute the fact that some couples make love in the kitchen? Don’t they have their private rooms?

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@PLC

IT IS TRUE THAT UR BOSS SLEPT WITH A LOT OF WOMEN BUT FROM YOUR STORY I SENCE THAT YOU OVER EXAGGERATE IT.

FIRSTLY I DONT EXPECT YOUR BOSE(A POLITICIAN AND A RICH MAN ) TO HAVE AN OFFICE WITH HOLE VERY CLOSE TO THE LITEL WERE YOU NORMALLY PEEP AND AGAIN I WOULD EXPECT A MAN OF THAT CALIBRE TO BE TAKING THEM TO HOTEL ROOMS INTEAD OF USING HIS OFFICE ALL ALL THE TIME

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THERE ARE BOUND TO BE EMOTIONAL ATTACHEMT AND LOST FOR OPPOSITE SEX WHEN IN THE SAME OFFICE AS A RESULT OF CLOSENESS

IT HAPPENS NOT ONLY B/W SECRETARY AND BOSS BUT ALSO B/W COLLEAGUES

MANY SECREARY HAVE END UP MARRYING THEIR BOSS NOT because OF PRESSURE AND THE FEAR OF LOSING THEIR JOB BUT FROM TRUE LOVE.

AND AGAIN WHAT MAKE PEOPLE THINK THE BOSS WOULD AWAYS WANT TO SLEEP WITH THEIR SECRETARY?

DONT FORGET THAT SECRETARY ALSO SEDUCE THEIR BOSS WITH THOSE BODILY CONTOURS THEY DISPLAY UP AND DOWN.

FOR ME, IT IS ONLY A LADY THAT DONT TAKE SEX TO BE ANYTHING EVEN WHY THEY WERE IN SCHOOL THAT WOULD GO ABOUT SLEEPING WITH PROMISCUOUS BOSS.

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yes most female secretaries bang their bosses and most bosses bang their secretaries, so so seductive, shaking that batty all over the place and the boss's blood pumping furiously, randy bosses don't get rude!rude!!rude!!!,

a woman that fears losing her job by sleeping with her boss is a woman not worthy (or just worthy of a facial in the bedroom if u like), forget the penalties, if a woman has dignity and self respect, she would rather get sacked or blackmailed than slide her thong from side to side for some dirty boxer, pot bellied, cocktail sausage-sized c*ck of a boss!

hit me on this!

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my spirit tell me MOST female Secretary and female BANK workers sleep with there boss

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@desarge

contribute sensibly and pls stop insulting people of their experiences or views. If u are not happy with the flow then take on another topic simple.

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most bosses are the cause of this unholy and unhealthy phenomenom although the ladies too have their own for bodi, when they deliberately dress rubbishly and scantily to attract, seduce and entice thier male bosses to such illicit and amorous affairs, mainly cos such men too can not control themselves, especially the married ones. GOD HAVE MERCY!!!

To me it is a two-edged sword, both parties are the cause

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PLC

Please bring mooooorrrrreee tori

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hmmm,

edon enjoy tori

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PLC, give us another story to verify ur claim.

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don't be looking at this in the aspect of the lady alone but some Ogas forced them even if they don't want to.

most of them fear of lost they will apathetically or unenthusiastically give.

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Dasarge, if you're referring to me then you didn't get the message I was trying to pass across.

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Not all secretaries sleep with their bosses although some of them do, Presently, i work as a secretary and i tell u even though im a practising born-again christian,this man doesn't care, the pressure is very much on his side but the determination is high on my side to make him understand that there is just no way,

There are many reasons why these female secretaries fall prey and they include-:

Fear of losing their jobs

Closeness with the bosses in question including long hours spent together alone

Randy nature of some of the so-called "big men"

Pressure(u cant understand totally if u haven't been there)

Lack of self confidence

GREED (in most cases)

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@Sylva

you know what Sylva, just stop answering their questions i noticed that most jobless lay-abouts and Geeks in Nigeria come to Nairaland to talk poo. I mean someone has opened a thread, instead of making meaningful contributions, you are compelling her to start naming names; is it untill she names your mother and her boss before you will make contributions?

A bunch of messed up mentalities! Damn

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@Cooldude62,

I was not sacked. I worked for one more year and resigned by myself. He didn't even want me to go, but I left him because as a Politician he was, he used to go with me at late hours just because I was his PA. We were ambushed one day but we were lucky. The other Politician in other vehicle ahead of us and his boys were killed, but our driver had to reverse and escape through that means.

Many occasions I would have died but God saved me.

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These are the people you know, huh? You'll be shocked one day when you'll find out how far he's gone. Keep on talking.

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whats untrue in is story? the story is real jare,i believe well well. by the way,were you sacked as threatened?

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