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Would You Sleep With Your Boss To Secure Your Job?

Some boss do disengaged their staff after they reject having sex with them.  This issue has been disconcerting me; some girls have lost their jobs because of sexual harassment from their boss, though some girls take that rubbish. As for me let them go to hell with their job.

would you secure your job with your butt?

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4get see hw many girl dey doum because of money dis is a jop u dey yak about oh !

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and you fancy her - don't dull

Disclaimer: avoid the married ones most married men become mad dangerous men when they find out that their wife is cheating.

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OR You could go along with it just enough to gather enough evidence against her and sue her for sexual harassment. But if she's really hot,

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There is no point sleeping with my boos to secure my job. Doing that mean selling and fooling myself. No condition is permanent it better to wait untill i secure a job or leave the job that if am being preasurise

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Well, I am a guy, married. I will not sleep with my bosss(lady) to keep my job. All I need do is to be able to work, I can always get another job if she fires me. However, it is common with ladies sleeping with their boss(man). Not all women would do that, it depends on the woman that is involved. But what i can tell you is that in virtually all the occasion, no molest can be established. It was all by consent. It is not peculiar to any form of organisation but, it is less rampart in government ministries and more i private establishment, because your boss is your employer but in bigger organisations and goverment ministries, your boss is not your employer and has limited power to threaten your means of livelihood unjustly.

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There is an angle nobody is looking at here. Everybody's talking about the 'i did it to save my family' scenario. Most of the time, this never happens in most medium size or large corporates. Maybe in one man shows sha,

I've seen two instances of this in my work career. I mean, not hearsay, I actually was able to lay my hand on direct damning evidence that the boss was sleeping with a female colleague.

In both cases, the girl was not harrassed, neither did she have to do it to save her family or something. It was more of the boss being a charming and handsome guy, and a ladies man, while the girl perceives herself to be 'happening', i.e. young, fine, bright and ambitious.

The both cases were strikingly similar: The girl and the oga started getting close, then too close, before you know it, they had started doing it.

Of course suddenly the girl became very bold and outspoken in the office, even to her superiors, and was catapulted to strategic positions (no real power), while all man was doing rankadede to her, just to stay in the boss's favour.

At the end, we had the same result for both. Something happened, the boss got transferred or moved out of the company, and HR came after the two girls and messed them up. In fact, both got fired for something flimsy, after being thoroughly humiliated at the company.

That was my experience sha. Oh by the way. In both cases the boss was happily married, while the girl was not. And get this. The girls never started out as 'bad' girls. In fact, one of them was even a professing born again.

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even though they say times are changing evil is evil nd good is good.

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Dont speak too soon baby - because i will soon become the president of Nigeria, and I want to make you my PA, but you must sleep with me to get that job - so - never say never.

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Would You Sleep With Your Boss To Secure Your Job?

never ever NEVER

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Its a pity that employers of labour take advantage of the desperate nature of their employees to keep their jobs coupled with the harsh economic climate to commit all sorts of attrocities with reckless abandon simply because their employess dont have an alternative.

For anyone worth his/her salt,one would not stoop so low to consent to five minute of pleasure and in the process tarnish the labour of past years.

My advice is to look at the big picture.What is the end to all these?In the long run the boss will sleep with whomever he/she can derive immediate satisfaction from and there after move on to conquer the next prey.Stick to ur guns refuse to give in.Either way whether you sleep with him or not,its not a guarantee that ur job is safe.So what will you rather settle for?

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[center]from shagging ur boss?[/center]

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i strongly belief that wat is urs is urs.sleeping with ur does is not a guarantee that u will remain there 4ever.its better u say no and mean it even if u are attracted to him its bad.i believe even if u,re sacked,a better one will come

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definitely YES if the job worths a FORTUNE

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[center]as we all know that the ladies are the most secretive of God's creature, we should not xpect them to come here with the truth.

99.999999999999999999999% of ladies will do it without much pressure from the boss[/center]

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I'VE BEEN READING THE ABOVE REVIEWS AND THEY ALL MAKE FOR INTERESTING READING, IT SEEMS THAT SEMANTICS IS THE NAME OF THE GAME HERE. sEX NA SEX ANY WAY YOU LOOK AT IT, SHE WHO WILL PUT OUT BCOZ NA UNC S, AND HE WHO WILL DO DI TIN COZ HE BE FULL BLOODED, INCLUDING ALL THE RELIGIOUS MOMS AND DADS IN DA HOUSE, WEN PUSH COMES TO SHOVE I GUESS ITS THE CIRCUMSTANCES THAT DETERMINE THE APPROPRIATE YES OR NO ANSWER TO GIVE. jUST REMEMBER THAT IT AINT RIGHT TO SH, T WHERE YOU EAT, NUFF SAID!!!!

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I think is better to sleep with your boss and make money than to sleep with numerous men and remain jobless.

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i slept with my boss and it was great we work great together

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i sure would xpecially if she is hot and sexy,even if i don't get as a result of not being impresd wit my per4mans

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Let me make it clearer, imean i will give her full service in order to get more promotion sef

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ur question did not say or explain how juicy the job is.Am sure over 90% will sleep with their bosses for a SHELL job 10times in order to get the job,without telling us how he or she get the job.

Be it a male or a female,so dont decieve ur selves.Well for me i will SLEEP with her and even ask for me if she cares

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simply manipulative cuz he/she'll always threaten u in order 2 get sum

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i dont think sleeping with my boss is the right thing to do.dont you think it is degrading and a loss of our dignity as a lady.

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Would the men here let a female boss have their way with you.

Let me know if you need a picture to let you know what I'm talking about

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in nigeria theres nothing like sexual harrazement, but not withstanding, its not good for girls to sleep with their boss for job.

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lets be sincere to our and face the fact. in this coutry today 95% of nig girl will do that, becos of the rate of poverty.

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any1?

but cum 2 think of it, i may actually cnsider it only if i'm already attracted 2 d person b4 d offer and i'm not seeing any1

which is practically impossible cuz 1: i wnt need a job and 2: i'm in a very serious r/ship

so the answer remains NO!

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what are you saying the bad guy whats the diffrence between sleeping with and having sex

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if i do sleep with my boy friend for free, then i should be able to sleep with my boss to secure my job. but i won't sleep with any one until i get married

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why don't ya'll direct dis question to the gurls too, wud dey do it?

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Abeg, let us (men) shurrup and let the ladies talk. We all know that this is NOT a problem for us in the office except in extreme and bizarre cases (in which case u may as well have been struck by lightning or hit by a falling pig)

As for the women saying they wont do it, I know that it is possible. (Unlike the 1 million pounds question where everyone claiming they wont do it is a bloody hypocritical liar) I have seen girls lose their jobs, and fail at school for refusing to barter their bodies. Very noble,, but in the end, they still end up the losers. Not once have I seen the perpetrator suffer for it.

So at the end of the day it is a tough question for the ladies. Will you or wont you? If you don't, you may lose your job, even be disgraced, or have false stories about your 'slutty' nature spread around the rumourmill. If you do, you may find yourself locked into a pattern of degrading behaviour, and have the same ruours spread, but this time , they are true. However you may suddenly discover that you have a very powerful man's balls in your hands (literally), a man that is likely married and has so much to lose from you opening your big mouth or setting him up. You may also find freedom when he discovers another office girl to turn his gaze upon. Or you may become the grass when he battles his wife/ her people.

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I really do not understand why people feel that everyone has to be like them. For crying out loud we are all different people.

@adelinks. The fact that damygurl said what you felt was the truth does not mean that it should follow that way too. We all have our reasons for everything whether positive or negative.

@topic, I would not do such.

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Bold letters NO.

Securing your job abi, you will have to keep on doing that. the day you stop is the day you say bye bye to your job.

so its better if you loose your job earlier on.

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If i am found in such a mess i wouldn't so i advice u ladies out there not 2 try such a trash

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easy for YOU to say.

you're a *guy*

this is a problem for the women here. lets hear what *they* have to say

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I definately will not.

If you sleep with your boss to get a job, then you should be ready to keep that job by continually sleeping with him at his demand. lets call a spade a spade, what is bad is bad.

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Well,i just pray i dont find myself in a situatn that'll make me sleep with someone in order to get a job, i dont know and this is a very good question.

What if i've got younger siblings behind me,mum is old and sick,dad is late, every one is lookn up to me as the breadwinner since im now a graduate,and i gotta get a job,have enough money to send my younger ones to schl,searched nooks and crannies of the city all in hope to get a job,afraid of people calln u a loser cos ur mates 4rm schl are all makn it big time,of course i'l do do it! Lets be sincere! That doesnt make me a LovePeddler,circumstances led me to it.even if im a virgin,i'll do it! And this is what i think a lot of people wont be sincere about, if i can sleep with a guy im on a second date with,then i can sleep with the boss,if its sure im gonna get d job u know, doesnt make much difference. And like i said earlier,i pray i dont find myself in a situatn like this,the fact that im not that situatn doesnt mean im better than pple who are, just god's grace.

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Its not good to do that rather you can hook him up with your friend but dont open your body for him cos it s vevr risky as it may affect ur job later after uv done it

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Hell No!

who needs the job anyway?

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Hell no!!!, the Body is the temple of God, the Bible says we should present it Holy and acceptable unto God, so if such unusual event tends to ocour, hell no i wont, if truely God wants me to work there, He wont allow such.

But in some case He (God) allows such just to test ones' faith.

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What does it mean to sleep with ur boss 4 love? was the love there b4 u secured the job? face it, u r just trying to justify ur action. That is not to say that u cant fall in love with him during the course of ur stay with the job, but be careful, men easily get fed up, u may just realise that all the other girls in ur office were one time-or-the-other in love with him too. so be wise.

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NO COS U'LL CONTINUE WITH ALL THE OTHER BOSSES AFTER THIS BOSS, WHETHER U ARE EMOTIONALLY , PHYSICALLY, OR SPIRITUALLY ATTRACTED TO THIS ONE OR NOT.

SWEET GIRLS IT'S JUST A JOB, NOT THE END OF THE WORLD.

PLEASE BE REASONABLE HERE.

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only a slut can do that

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hell no!

he can eep d damn job

i may not need d job afterall

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